Why are my hands always cold?! - Club CDFreaks

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

Hey, im 13 and my girlfriend says that my hands are always cold. They are cold everytime I look at them and I dont like it. I feel sorry for her because she always has to hold them, she doesnt complain, but I still sometimes dont do anything because of my cold hands. At school they even go blue from cold sometimes

Does anyone know:
*Why they are always cold
*How I can prevent them from being cold all the time

Also, I havent kissed her yet, but we have been together for a month and a bit now. She told me that she wants to kiss me, and I want to kiss her. The reason that I wont, is because I havent kissed a girl for 3 years, so I wouldnt be good at all. I would be really bad, and I dont want to look like a dick in front of her.

If anyone has any tips, please tell me.

Thanks

*Airhead* · 10-10-2003

*shouts after Hemi*
My pinky gets all cold sometimes... I know a girl who also has cold hands. She doesn't complain either...

Now the kissing issue, how are you going to get good on it without practicing!? Go practice on her!

*Namoh* · 10-10-2003

About your cold hands, that can be because of a low blood pressure (my girlfriend has that).

About the kissing, just go ahead, she's propably just as nerves about the first kiss as you and if your busy you know what to do (it's in your instinct).

*Mr. Belvedere* · 10-10-2003

Just kiss her ; If she likes it , she'll want more kisses

Concerning the hands.. you're a little too young to start drinking , so i'd suggest a counsel with the best doctor this forum has.

Hemi !

--------------

Oh to be 13 again and know what i know now

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

Rofl. Thanks for the kissing tip...I think. Lol

The thing about the hands is that they are cold ALL the time. I can warm them up, but in less than a minute they are cold again. Is there a reason for this? Someone told me that they go blue with coldness because there isnt enough blood circulating in my hands..but I dont know how to help that.

Thanks

xtremeskier97 · 10-10-2003

As far as the cold hands issue, you are right. Most times it is caused by poor blood circulation/low blood pressure. As fard as what to do about it, I'm not sure. I'm not a doctor. I would definitely get it looked at.

Good luck on the kissing thing. Like others have said, you gotta practice on someone!

*damiandimitri* · 10-10-2003

cold hands could be;
http://www.ithaca.edu/faculty/nquarrie/coldhands.html

kissing;
http://www.thekiss.com/

hmm..don't worry about cold hands...they will get warm when you start to kiss

*cmr3000x* · 10-10-2003

Wear some mittens...

KISS HER!!!

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

hey guys..thanks sooo much for your help. i will try and do what you have said.

thank lots guys

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

oh yeah...

who is this 'Hemi' and where can i find them? Could someone pleas PM them, with a link to this thread. THanks

**Hemispasm** · 10-10-2003

Theone_1, fist of all, what you should do is go visit a certified physician about your problem. He will know best what it is caused by and treat it accordingly.

Cold hands are due to local vasoconstriction, aka narrowing of the blood vessels, therefore slowing down the circulation in that parts of the skin and thus no warm blood reaches the corresponding areas. It could be related to Raynaud's phenomenon or not, which in turn could be a secondary symptom of other diseases of the connective tissue such as scleroderma or SLE (lupus).

(Raynaud's Phenomenon: Raynaud's disease or syndrome is a disorder of blood circulation, mainly in the fingers and toes. It is of unknown cause and characterized by changes of the skin that are aggravated by exposure to cold: first, becoming white with numbness and pain as a result of inadequate oxygenation of the blood, then red/purple with a burning sensation. The sudden constriction of blood vessels causes decreased blood flow to the extremities and can, in extreme cases, lead to gangrene. Also called "white finger", "wax finger" or "dead finger". )

Nothing that you can really do about it if it's primary Raynaud (hopefully), just wear gloves and watch what you eat (no fats etc). Best you can do is go visit a doc about it.

... and go kiss that girl of yours

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

Ok. Thanks a LOT guys. Im going to see her tomorrow, and I will post the details on this thread. If you want to know the details, just pop in and see what I wrote.

Once again, thanks. I think I will be with this forum for a long time. THe people are so friendly. Thanks again

*theone1_* · 10-10-2003

Quote:

Originally posted by theone1_
Im going to see her tomorrow, and I will post the details on this thread. If you want to know the details, just pop in and see what I wrote.

I forgot about the different time zones. At the moment it is 1:00am (My bedtime lol) So the post will be here in around just under 24 hours.Thanks again

**DoMiN8ToR** · 10-10-2003

Good luck buddy!

DryBaboon · 10-10-2003

You can have an operation called a Sympathectomy, apparently. Might not sound so great to the girls tho'.

*dansmug* · 10-10-2003

I also have very often cold hands. Now my girls warms them for me. Problem solved.

DryBaboon · 11-10-2003

Single men have for centuries had a special way of warming their hands... or one of them....

*damiandimitri* · 11-10-2003

Quote:

Ok. Thanks a LOT guys. Im going to see her tomorrow, and I will post the details on this thread. If you want to know the details, just pop in and see what I wrote.

thank you...for sharing. BUT......think about her privacy too.
Don't tell to much details in here.

good luck...

damian

*theone1_* · 11-10-2003

nah its kool..she doesnt mind.

newayz, i just got back from seeing her and:

My hands didnt go cold once

BUT, we didnt kiss because her parents were always hanging around, and I get embarrased easily.

other stuff happened, but i would prefer not to mention it here

thanks for all your support guys

nono721 · 3 Days Ago

well in my opinion u are obsorbing energy.

zap em · 3 Days Ago

THEONE1
You are only 13? You should worry about using clearasil or
proactive ,and not worry about your cold hands? You
see your evolving unfortunatley into a reptile.
ZAP.

RookieRipper · 3 Days Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by zap em

THEONE1
You are only 13? You should worry about using clearasil or
proactive ,and not worry about your cold hands? You
see your evolving unfortunatley into a reptile.
ZAP.

He would be 18 years old now. This thread is from 5 years ago.

*Sexy_Southerner* · 2 Days Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by RookieRipper

He would be 18 years old now. This thread is from 5 years ago.

I was thinking the same thing...he is not 13 anymore

**Jesterrace** · 2 Days Ago

I wonder how it all worked out.

*alexanderino* · 2 Days Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by theone1_

Someone told me that they go blue with coldness because there isnt enough blood circulating in my hands..but I dont know how to help that.

In certain situations, your blood circulates to other extremities.

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theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	Why are my hands always cold?! <a href='http://adstats.cdfreaks.com/www/delivery/ck.php?n=a13febf7&cb=INSERT_RANDOM_NUMBER_HERE' target='_blank'><img src='http://adstats.cdfreaks.com/www/delivery/avw.php?zoneid=30&cb=INSERT_RANDOM_NUMBER_HERE&n=a13febf7' border='0' alt='' /></a> Hey, im 13 and my girlfriend says that my hands are always cold. They are cold everytime I look at them and I dont like it. I feel sorry for her because she always has to hold them, she doesnt complain, but I still sometimes dont do anything because of my cold hands. At school they even go blue from cold sometimes Does anyone know: Why they are always cold How I can prevent them from being cold all the time Also, I havent kissed her yet, but we have been together for a month and a bit now. She told me that she wants to kiss me, and I want to kiss her. The reason that I wont, is because I havent kissed a girl for 3 years, so I wouldnt be good at all. I would be really bad, and I dont want to look like a dick in front of her. If anyone has any tips, please tell me. Thanks __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

10-10-2003	#2 (permalink)
Airhead Letiled Modelatol Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: La Suède Posts: 6,937	shouts after Hemi My pinky gets all cold sometimes... I know a girl who also has cold hands. She doesn't complain either... Now the kissing issue, how are you going to get good on it without practicing!? Go practice on her! __________________ This line is currently vacant. Or Is It??? You want fast answers? Use our search. <-- Or else! If you have not already, read our rules! <-- Or else again! bcn_246: "Wales are shitty animals to, all they do is swim around and make funny noises that people cant hear." You really should join us on IRC! IrcNet, #cdfreaks-int \| Or go here Fear my massive avatar history log! Not updated! "But do they keep increasing in size like mine?" - kwkard

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theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	Rofl. Thanks for the kissing tip...I think. Lol The thing about the hands is that they are cold ALL the time. I can warm them up, but in less than a minute they are cold again. Is there a reason for this? Someone told me that they go blue with coldness because there isnt enough blood circulating in my hands..but I dont know how to help that. Thanks __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

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xtremeskier97 CD Freaks Senior Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: Louisiana Posts: 317	As far as the cold hands issue, you are right. Most times it is caused by poor blood circulation/low blood pressure. As fard as what to do about it, I'm not sure. I'm not a doctor. I would definitely get it looked at. Good luck on the kissing thing. Like others have said, you gotta practice on someone! __________________ MSI K7N2 Delta-L \| Athlon Barton 2500+ @ 2.2GHz \| 2x512MB PC3200 DDR \| 40GB Seagate (OS) \| 200GB Maxtor 8MB (Downloads) \| ATI 9800 Pro 128MB DDR \| AOpen 52x24x48x \| 16x Samsung DVD \| Silver Chieftec Dragon Case \| Ultra X-Connect 500W ULT31562 UV PSU \| Windows XP Pro Sp2 \|

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damiandimitri CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: netherlands Posts: 3,535	cold hands could be; http://www.ithaca.edu/faculty/nquarrie/coldhands.html kissing; http://www.thekiss.com/ hmm..don't worry about cold hands...they will get warm when you start to kiss

10-10-2003	#8 (permalink)
cmr3000x CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NorCal SacTown Status: ÇªΓFεΐИз Άđdї©Ŧ Posts: 1,272	Wear some mittens... KISS HER!!! __________________ .: Take some time out to read the rules! .: Let's test the patience of some random member! .: Member # 12,680 :.

10-10-2003	#9 (permalink)
theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	hey guys..thanks sooo much for your help. i will try and do what you have said. thank lots guys __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

10-10-2003	#10 (permalink)
theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	oh yeah... who is this 'Hemi' and where can i find them? Could someone pleas PM them, with a link to this thread. THanks __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

10-10-2003	#11 (permalink)
Hemispasm Moderator Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Bye bye Navy, here comes Sweden!! Posts: 4,082	Theone_1, fist of all, what you should do is go visit a certified physician about your problem. He will know best what it is caused by and treat it accordingly. Cold hands are due to local vasoconstriction, aka narrowing of the blood vessels, therefore slowing down the circulation in that parts of the skin and thus no warm blood reaches the corresponding areas. It could be related to Raynaud's phenomenon or not, which in turn could be a secondary symptom of other diseases of the connective tissue such as scleroderma or SLE (lupus). (Raynaud's Phenomenon: Raynaud's disease or syndrome is a disorder of blood circulation, mainly in the fingers and toes. It is of unknown cause and characterized by changes of the skin that are aggravated by exposure to cold: first, becoming white with numbness and pain as a result of inadequate oxygenation of the blood, then red/purple with a burning sensation. The sudden constriction of blood vessels causes decreased blood flow to the extremities and can, in extreme cases, lead to gangrene. Also called "white finger", "wax finger" or "dead finger". ) Nothing that you can really do about it if it's primary Raynaud (hopefully), just wear gloves and watch what you eat (no fats etc). Best you can do is go visit a doc about it. ... and go kiss that girl of yours __________________ [Airhead]: How the devil?! I got 69! I am a french lesbian! Hemi HATES wallpapers AND pickles ........ never forget that There is one thing more evil than pickles, and that is STATISTICS...

10-10-2003	#12 (permalink)
theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	Ok. Thanks a LOT guys. Im going to see her tomorrow, and I will post the details on this thread. If you want to know the details, just pop in and see what I wrote. Once again, thanks. I think I will be with this forum for a long time. THe people are so friendly. Thanks again __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

10-10-2003	#14 (permalink)
DoMiN8ToR CD Freaks Management Join Date: Jul 1999 Location: CD Freaks HQ Posts: 5,222	Good luck buddy! __________________ cdfreaks.com [ World's largest CD/DVD community ] Need some help ? Please use our search function first

10-10-2003	#15 (permalink)
DryBaboon CD Freaks Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: CHINA Posts: 236	You can have an operation called a Sympathectomy, apparently. Might not sound so great to the girls tho'. __________________ ________________________ Four cheers for me. ________________________

10-10-2003	#16 (permalink)
dansmug Lord of the Strings Join Date: Jul 1999 Location: België Posts: 2,267	I also have very often cold hands. Now my girls warms them for me. Problem solved. __________________ The best lack all conviction, while the worst are full of a passionate intensity. http://www.mandrivaclub.nl Chat with fellow freakers (and meet the famous Ruff-Next): IRCnet > #cdfreaks (Dutch) & #cdfreaks-int

11-10-2003	#17 (permalink)
DryBaboon CD Freaks Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: CHINA Posts: 236	Single men have for centuries had a special way of warming their hands... or one of them.... __________________ ________________________ Four cheers for me. ________________________

11-10-2003	#19 (permalink)
theone1_ CDFreaks Resident Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 1,931	nah its kool..she doesnt mind. newayz, i just got back from seeing her and: My hands didnt go cold once BUT, we didnt kiss because her parents were always hanging around, and I get embarrased easily. other stuff happened, but i would prefer not to mention it here thanks for all your support guys __________________ Behold, bastard son! I am the evil one! [My Pictures] -- Lucifer Incestus --

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nono721 New on Forum Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1	Re: Why are my hands always cold?! well in my opinion u are obsorbing energy.

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zap em CD Freaks Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 339	Re: Why are my hands always cold?! THEONE1 You are only 13? You should worry about using clearasil or proactive ,and not worry about your cold hands? You see your evolving unfortunatley into a reptile. ZAP.

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Jesterrace Moderator Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 4,607	Re: Why are my hands always cold?! I wonder how it all worked out.

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